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	<description>A day in the life of a romance author...</description>
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		<title>By: Stephie Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/2008/01/20/57/#comment-25</link>
		<author>Stephie Smith</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2008 04:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Sandy, 

I think like everything else, it depends on the way YOU act and think. If you write romances with love scenes and you decide and act like there's not a thing wrong with that, then, although there might a little ruffle at the beginning when your students first find out about it, it will settle down.

But if you act embarrassed and can't look anyone in the eye and are ashamed of what you write, then you'll probably get the kind of reaction that warrants.

So write those scenes, hold your head up high and be proud. You're a great writer. Yes, there will be sex, but sex and love are an important part of life. If there's motivation other than plain lust, and there's a plot and character development, then it's a story about life and love. That's what it's all about, and there's no reason to be ashamed of that, no matter what the age of your readers:-)

And besides, you won't have to worry about that for long. After reading the excerpt from Murphy's Law, I really think that as soon as you get published you'll be on your way. So once you get there, just look toward the future and don't worry about the rest:-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sandy, </p>
<p>I think like everything else, it depends on the way YOU act and think. If you write romances with love scenes and you decide and act like there&#8217;s not a thing wrong with that, then, although there might a little ruffle at the beginning when your students first find out about it, it will settle down.</p>
<p>But if you act embarrassed and can&#8217;t look anyone in the eye and are ashamed of what you write, then you&#8217;ll probably get the kind of reaction that warrants.</p>
<p>So write those scenes, hold your head up high and be proud. You&#8217;re a great writer. Yes, there will be sex, but sex and love are an important part of life. If there&#8217;s motivation other than plain lust, and there&#8217;s a plot and character development, then it&#8217;s a story about life and love. That&#8217;s what it&#8217;s all about, and there&#8217;s no reason to be ashamed of that, no matter what the age of your readers:-)</p>
<p>And besides, you won&#8217;t have to worry about that for long. After reading the excerpt from Murphy&#8217;s Law, I really think that as soon as you get published you&#8217;ll be on your way. So once you get there, just look toward the future and don&#8217;t worry about the rest:-)</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/2008/01/20/57/#comment-26</link>
		<author>admin</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2008 13:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Thank so much, Stephie!  Great advice!!  And I really appreciate all the confidence you have in me.  It means the world to me!  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank so much, Stephie!  Great advice!!  And I really appreciate all the confidence you have in me.  It means the world to me!  <img src='http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Thomas Busch</title>
		<link>http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/2008/01/20/57/#comment-35</link>
		<author>Thomas Busch</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Aww, I'm not trying to make you sad or anything.  But that doesn't mean i'll stop :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww, I&#8217;m not trying to make you sad or anything.  But that doesn&#8217;t mean i&#8217;ll stop <img src='http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/2008/01/20/57/#comment-36</link>
		<author>admin</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 20:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I know you're just teasing.  And I also know I don't expect any of you to stop.  I love you all just the way you are.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know you&#8217;re just teasing.  And I also know I don&#8217;t expect any of you to stop.  I love you all just the way you are.  <img src='http://www.sandy-james.com/stable/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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